I saw you on TV and you were discussing commitment phobic men. I’m wondering if I am one of these types. My friends say I have a commitment problem! Help ? How will I know?
Dear Commitment Phobic,
So you think you’re a commitment-phobic? just the fact that your asking is apart of your answer… Answer some of the questions below and GET REAL!!!! be honest and if you want to change call me for a private coaching session so you do not ruin your life or the people you date…
Are you a man that only lasts 2-3 months and then moves on to the next bigger, better deal? Do you run when you get close to a partner?
Let’s see if you fit the bill of a commitment phobic man.
Thanks to some insight from my book Love Mechanics and interviews with hundreds of singles, I listed some of the types of men that women watch out for.
1- The High Speed Chaser: A man that falls in and out of love quickly. Declares love early on then gets restless and breaks up with a woman for the smallest reason. Generally, a man does this because he needs to boost his self-esteem by moving on to his next conquest… and fast! Are you a high speed chaser and leave a trail of pissed off women and some broken hearts?
2- The Bigger Better Deal: A man who always needs the exact list of qualities he is looking for in a wife and as soon as a woman doesn’t meet one of the requirements, he looks for a replacement. This man has unrealistic expectations and always believes there is a better deal for him with the next girl. Are you a perfectionist looking for the perfect woman?
3- A Passenger Still Remaining in Your Vehicle: A man whose ex is still inside his heart, but is looking for someone to quickly replace his lost love. The women he dates never get all of him because there is no room in his heart for the past and future until he gets over the ex. do you have a psssenger remaining in your vehicle?
4- Out of Gas: A walking wounded man who is so badly burned that he is scared of being hurt again. In order to protect himself, he never fully commits to a relationship, as he believes there is too much risk involved in commitment. Are you afraid to give love with a full tank? Have you given up on love?
Ask your self? What does commitment mean to you? Both parties involved need to be on the same page about this issue; do not assume anything or you might get led on. are you being honest with yourself or the people you date?
Girls! If you are dating a player and cant move on…. Call me for a FREE 15 minute LOVE session and let me help you Break the Bad boy pattern NOW! That is if you are ready for love…or check out my Seminars online at www.ReneePiane.com
Do not waste years of your life dating coimmitment phobic men! Been there done that and it is a BIG waste of time and energy…unless of course you are a commitment phobic yourself…if so good luck!
Need coaching check out my work online…I have helped thousands find LOVE… now it is your turn!
Renee Piane…The Love Designer for people who are reallyReady for LOVE!
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