I had the pleasure of doing interviews with some famous stars at the “Night of 100 Stars” on the Red Carpet Sunday night and many of them had some great wisdom about Love. All the glitz, fashion and glamour  is very exciting to be around but guess what they have the same challenges  just like we all do with people not committing, not taking time for Love or being so busy and time passes them by. 
Most of us look to Hollywood movies and read the tabloids to find out what is going on with the stars. Keep checking back since I am editing the footage…
For all you men out there….I did get to interview Cindy Margolis (one of the most viewed women on the internet)  who I discovered has not found true love yet? There is a new show on FOX called “Seducing Cindy” I was speaking to her about her love life and told her I had some words of widom for her since from my side she is looking for something special yet not sending the right signals out to attract the right guy.Who knew a super model would have dating dilemas? 

I also interviewed one of Tiger Woods girl friends of 3 years,Veronica Siwik-Daniels, a former porn actress who said she had a three-year relationship with Woods and was “bitterly disappointed” that he didn’t mention her on Friday in the list of people to whom he owed apologies.

I asked her about her affair with that wild Tiger…and when I asked her “if she felt guilty about sleeping with some one elses husband”  Gloria Allred (the famous Hollywood attorney) said “She has had enough …no more comments please” and wisked her away. I must say Veronica was not all that hot …what was Tiger thinking?
any how I am off to do editing and here are a few photos to hold you over til the videos are up!
more to come! Keep the faith ….As long as you Believe in Love and give it out it will find you!
Renee

Renee Piane offers some of her insightful love wisdom and advice about Valentines Day for singles who are casually dating and don’t want too much pressure and those who are looking for some creative ideas to make their Valentines day great! Single or hitched Renee will help you Celebrate LOVE!

Here is some sound Valentiness advice  for those who are Casuall dating or not involved this Valentines Day from Renee Piane
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zy5kwhau-VU

Too Soon for a Heavy Valentine’s Day?

Dear Renee, (Love Mechanic)
I am single and dating a few women casually. Most of my friends have a date for Valentine’s Day, and I am seeing a girl yet I don’t want to do all the romantic gushy stuff this soon in our relationship. Are there a few things I could do to keep her happy without going “Valentines crazy” on that night? I don’t want to spend a lot on her at this point, but keep her in the mix of my dating. I am not cheap but after only a few dates it seems silly to go all out since she is not my girlfriend. My single friends want me to hook up with them? Suggestions?

Dear Too soon for a heavy Valentine’s Day,

Well it that time of year again…Valentines Day and it can sometimes put people into a funky mood since they aren’t in love or with someone special. Count your blessings …Hey at least you have someone that you are dating and have some interest. In my Rapid Dating business this is a busy time of year and if you are single and reading this there are millions of singles looking for love! About your new friend… you want to acknowledge the connection without going overboard. 
LADIES: Lighten up. Since I work with hundreds of men… it is just not a big deal for most of them. Just another day for Hallmark to make millions according to many of the men I talk with.

GENTLEMEN: For women Valentines Day still pushes some buttons even if we don’t like to admit it. Since you asked what to do you must like her, so here are a few suggestions for people who are just starting to date to do for Valentines Day without going overboard. Whether you’re a man or a woman a small thoughtful gift makes your day and you don’t have to spend tons of money:
Some Tips:
1. Send a card that is funny and leave a small box of chocolates for your new friend
2. Put a few Hershey kisses at their door step with a single rose or flowers.
3. Call to say hello and that you were thinking of them.
4. Go to lunch instead of an expensive dinner.
5. You could discuss your thoughts and say “hey I like you but we aren’t at the Valentine’s Day Stages yet. But I am getting together with friends for a dinner if you’d like to join us.” Then your friends can check out your date and you can please everyone!

SINGLES! A few suggestions to create an amazing Day for yourself and other friends*Pre Valentine’s “Spreading the LOVE” Cocktail Disco Dance Party
If you are single come to my to connect with other great singles on Sat, Feb 13th from 7:30-1 am at the THE WINE PLACE in Marina Del Rey. It is a gorgeous place with great music benefiting those less fortunate in Haiti.
here is the link to the invite! http://www.reneepiane.com/pdf/prevalmixer.pdf 
(All the info on this and other great advice on the site www.Reneepiane.com )

Get a group together and be a cupid! I suggest planning a gathering of friends (even a few) and each person brings a gift like a flower or chocolates and go and celebrate love and friendship together. You could initiate the gathering! Count your blessings and toast to the love yet to come. Tell each other what type of person you’re looking for and have your friend assist you in your search. When I was single I did this every year and I guess even now I am still gathering great people so come join us! It was called it the “LOVE CLUB” and we have done this ritual for years.

Don’t stay home alone and pout. If you have a fun group and don’t want to join the crowds, have everyone bring a dish over to your place and have a potluck and rent “When Harry Met Sally” “The Notebook” or other romantic favorites. Bring along an extra single friend who doesn’t know any one in your group and play cupid or get a group and go out dancing, bowling or to a play. Plan ahead!
Be in charge…Be your own Valentine!

There are many events and parties happening around town so check the internet and in local papers or plan your own.
Still Single? Suddenly Single? This month I am hosting my Cocktail Party Mixer
Two Love Seminars and a NEW Rapid NETWORKING event to help you connect! Please go to my site at: ReneePiane.com and see our listings. Get on our mailing list to get weekly updates on all our FUN events!
If you have a love or dating question or dilemma please email me at AskRenee@lovemechanics.com. I will do my best to help! Need a new look or some help with a dating dilemma set up a personal coaching session or a complete Dating and Image Make Over with me offering 10% discounts until March 15th. Give us a call at the office at 310 -827-1100 or email us for info Keep your heart open to Love!

© 2010 All contents of these articles are the sole property of ReneePiane Enterprises LLC and cannot be duplicated or copied without permission of the author

TOPIC: Are you too Busy for Love!
Time for a LOVE TUNE UP!

It is a new year and you need to re-evaluate your love life! It’s time to make new commitments to yourself regarding your love life so 2010 will be magical! Here is my questionaire for you in this fabulous new year!

Take The Love Mechanics Love Tune-Up Survey:
Written by: Renee Piane

This week, take the time to ask yourself these VERY IMPORTANT questions, and in my next newsletter, come back for my Tune-Up Prescription!

Here is your “Tune Up Questionnaire” and answer it honestly:
1. Are you too busy for Love? 
2. Is your business taking over your life? 
3. Do you expect love to come knocking when you don’t even have time for you?
4. Are you the person you want to attract? 
5. Are you living now how you would be if you were in LOVE? 
6. Have you taken time to prepare for love BEFORE it comes?
7. Do you have a “Passenger Remaining in your Vehicle?”
8. Is there someone still nagging at your heart, sucking your energy and draining your time? 

LOVE TIP: Do not waste time on “Dead End” relationships. Get support to heal. I wasted too many years wondering why, and I carried anger for too long blocking new love. GET OVER IT! Get some support to heal your heart! Call me for a personal coaching session to get back on track!

9. Do you have a support system?
10. Do you project open Energy? 

Your attitude and energy make the difference. 80 percent of the people you encounter on a daily basis are pretty shut down and cranky. 

11. Are you one of those cranky people? 
12. Are you open?
13. Do you “Flirt with LifeÓ” and treat everyone you meet with honor and respect? 

LOVE TIP: You never know who is watching, and kindness leaves a lasting impression. When you are nice to others, it makes it safer for others to approach you. Compliment a stranger, smile at a person walking by, and say, “Good Morning.” Sometimes that is all it takes to meet someone. “Every encounter makes a difference.” 

14. Do you flirt enough? Do you know how to flirt?
15. Are you happy and balanced in your life? 

LOVE TIP: Get to know what really makes you happy and do those activities now. Don’t wait for a mate to travel, take dancing lessons, work out, repaint your apartment, get new bedding or that new couch … do it NOW! Act as if you have a lover in your life before they come. 

16. Is your life in balance with work and play?
17. Do you schedule time to meet new people, and do you keep your options open? 

LOVE TIP: Whether you try matchmaking service (In the Los Angeles area, I recommend Elite Connections), online dating, Rapid Dating, singles travel or blind dates.  Be more open-minded and take more risks in your dating life! 

18. How many risks have you taken?
19. Do you believe in LOVE? 

LOVE TIP: Love can happen at any age, any day, at any time. Today, right now, the person you are looking for could be in line at Costco, a charity event, the drycleaners, on your next blind date (the one you swore you’d never go on), the post office, or out walking their dog right outside your door You do get what you believe and focus on! Watch your thoughts carefully. The thoughts you think about love and relationships show up in every conversation, your body language and the “Energy” you project. Believe in LOVE and keep your heart open! 

21. Do you really believe love exists?
22. Do you have limitations on your type and age ranges? 

LOVE TIP:Stay open to younger, older, and in-between. Attraction has to do with energy, attitude and openness. When it comes to dating… there are no “rules,” just unlimited possibilities.
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I hope, by reflecting on these questions, I will have offered you some inspiration and insights. I have so much more to share! You can read mine (and other) love stories on my website
*You might consider taking one of my ongoing various LOVE Tune-up Seminars to help you Learn how to Manifest Love or prepare for the love of your life!.They are life changing seminars held live and online monthly. I am also available for private dating coaching! Write out your vision and call me to help you create a new you with a Complete Makeover. I am master at reinventing your wardrobe on a budget and I am offering 20% off my regular rate for the month of January! Let me help you make magic in your love life! Happy new year!

Renee Have a love or dating question or need some love advice?? Need a private coaching session? Call 310-827-1100 or Email: Renee@Lovemechanics.com. to make an appointment and I can help you personally with all your dating and love challenges. Still Single? Suddenly Single? Want to liven up your love life? Join us at Rapid Dating Cocktail parties, held in cities all over the Southern California. Get on our email list and check out our events at ReneePiane.com and join in on all the fun. We also host Rapid Networking events for business professionals to make great business contacts Fast! Check out my LOVE MECHANICS PODCASTS on line giving FREE ADVICE Weekly!

You may consider attending one of my LOVE TUNE UP Seminars to learn how the opposite sex thinks! These events are life changing! Need help with how you will handle this or any dating dilemma? Call me for a Tuneup session. I can help you win in the game of Love! This work is my passion and I have helped thousands of people meet their mate! Now it is your turn.

© 2009 All contents of these articles are the sole property of ReneePiane Enterprises LLC and cannot be duplicated or copied without permission of the author.
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